
Crushes. We all have them. Or had them. How do you define a "crush"? For me, it is when you adore or when you like someone and you always long to see or talk to that person. You know, good old high school days.
But have you ever heard of a "hate crush"?
"A hate crush occurs when someone irritates you so much that you become obsessed with him or her." - www.examiner.com
It is that feeling when you dislike a person, but still you check out their Facebook/Twitter, or anything they post. Just like a normal crush, You like to see them, talk about them but not that you adore them but because you like to hear bad things about them or see their imperfections, etc.
This is very common for girls. Although I can't really explain why. Maybe guys just care less than girls.
Anyway, a hate crush can be anyone. That "friend" of yours or your friend's friend, a friend of your girl/boyfriend, a person in school/office, even your ex.
How do you stop hate crushing on someone?
Do things that will make you not think of that person. Hide them in your Facebook feeds, try to not look at them when they are around. Just like in the saying "Out if sight, out of mind"
If you know or feel that someone is hate crushing on you...
IGNORE. I always believed in "Don't fight fire with fire". Don't start something that it isn't even worth your time. FORGET. It is not worth remembering. PRAY. Pray for them, they might be going through something hard.
How do you deal with your hate crush? Do you still have one? Did you ever feel that someone is hate crushing on you? Did you do something about it? Do GUYS have hate crushes???
Feel free to comment down below ;)
See ya later :*